The Girl Who Says No (And The Man Who Doesn’t Understand)

 

     They dated once, and after that, she refused to see or talk to him again—he tried to kiss her and touch her without her permission on their first date. She started blocking him but he didn’t give up—he used 44 phone numbers to repeatedly call her. He probably thought that her blocking him  was her one way of demonstrating her affection for him. ROFL. He also would give her gifts like groceries, a ring and a card with the message “for the love of my life” written on it.

     He also bought her plane ticket so she could go with him to China (his homeland), and would mock her religious beliefs (she’s a Muslim).

     She had him arrested for stalking but was given bail, provided that he would not harass her again. But after his release, he continued to stalk her, asking her to give up her police complaints, sending her disturbing messages, and “could they be friends with benefits?”

     He was arrested again after she approached her—and was sentenced to 28 months in jail.

     This is another case of a man not understanding , or refusing to understand the word “no” from a girl. Lots of men think that when a girl says “no” when they make a pass on her, she’s simply playing hard to get, and that her “no” with a little persistence and aggressiveness, will turn to a “yes.”

     I don’t know but even if the girl likes you, too, and fantasizes about the two of you having romantic dinners or even making hot sex inside an Avengers-themed motel room where she’s Black Widow and you’re Incredible Hulk, her “no” still means “no” and will still hold, and you can’t do anything but respect it.

     And buying 44 new SIM cards and giving her bags and bags of groceries  will not change a thing.